So What? (One question that will end the Mommy Wars before they begin), by Aprille (BeautifulInHisTime blog). So much truth in this post! We seek validation and justification for our choices by having others agree with us, rather than trusting in our own decision-making abilities. These discussions rarely change anybody else’s mind, and just bring frustration all around. Our decisions are OUR decisions, and don’t affect anybody who isn’t in our family.