Missing the bigger picture

Missing the bigger picture, by Miriam (FaithMummy blog). Therapists, services, professionals and schools often only think about the one child that they work with- yet their decisions and recommendations impact and affect the child’s whole family.

In my case both my children have additional support needs, but even if my daughter was ‘typical’ developing she should still be considered when it comes to matters of her brother. The impact on her is just as big, and at times even bigger, than on her brother.

The only problem is that both children have ‘projects’ that, while increasing their development and skills and helping their medical conditions, they will also both require huge amounts of time and support from me. I smile, and leave with yet more literature while thinking all the time, ‘what about my other child?’. My time is not exclusive to one child, even if their needs would call for this, and I also have a house to run and a husband who needs me too. 

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